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Life After Divorce: Finding Gratitude Through My Grief

January 2, 2025

When I was just 17 years old, my Year 12 teacher said to our class:“Nobody gets married thinking they’re going to get divorced.” I never understood the true significance of this until I was 32 years old. I met my children’s father very young. I was only 17, he was 18. We fell in love… Read More Life After Divorce: Finding Gratitude Through My Grief

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How Nobody Believing in My Dreams Taught Me to Believe in Myself

November 24, 2023

I remember the first time I told some family friends that my dream was to run my own business. I was 15, filled with hope and passion. I felt so proud to tell these people I’d just met how I’d been running 25 websites and had just been offered a freelance web design job. I… Read More How Nobody Believing in My Dreams Taught Me to Believe in Myself

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The Magic of Television and Movies: Thank You Matthew Perry for Adding Laughter into My Life

November 12, 2023

I like to think that I am quite an emotionally intelligent person. But when my best friend told me that Matthew Perry had passed away, I froze and was overwhelmed with sadness and I just couldn’t comprehend why. I didn’t know Matthew personally. I hadn’t even met him once in person while he was still… Read More The Magic of Television and Movies: Thank You Matthew Perry for Adding Laughter into My Life

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An Open Letter to Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis

September 18, 2023

Trigger warning: Sexual assault, child abuse Ashton and Mila, I am a survivor of sexual violence, a survivor of child sexual abuse by an immediate family member. And I am not here to reprimand, to judge, or in any way negatively comment on your decision to write character letters for Danny Masterson. In fact, I… Read More An Open Letter to Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis

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What Has Mark McGowan’s Resignation Reminded Us About Work-Life Balance?

June 10, 2023

When Mark McGowan resigned as WA Premier early last week, citing the reason, “I’m tired”, I could – on a much, much smaller scale – relate to his feelings of mental and physical exhaustion. His honest admission left me feeling in awe of him, because it wasn’t too long ago that I thought it didn’t… Read More What Has Mark McGowan’s Resignation Reminded Us About Work-Life Balance?

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To the First Man I Ever Loved: Thank You For Helping Me Find Peace

April 6, 2023

To the First Man I Ever Loved: I remember exactly how good you made me feel at 16 years old. How I told you things I had never told anyone. How hearing your voice, seeing you, just knowing you loved me, was enough for me to forget what he did to my innocent body. I… Read More To the First Man I Ever Loved: Thank You For Helping Me Find Peace

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Forgiving Someone Who Isn’t Sorry

January 18, 2023

My partner and I recently got engaged and this is something I never dreamed of happening again. After the breakdown of my 12 year marriage, I was adamant that I’d rather die alone than risk heartbreak and loss again. The idea of ever making it down the altar again was something that never crossed my… Read More Forgiving Someone Who Isn’t Sorry

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The Worst Relationship Advice I’ve Ever Received and How It Almost Broke Me

January 2, 2023

Trigger warning: Child abuse, sexual assault, family and domestic violence Growing up, I was not surrounded by healthy versions of love. I was sexually abused by a family member for years. My first depiction of love was family and domestic violence, punches being thrown in glass doors, incessant arguing after family dinners, and heads being… Read More The Worst Relationship Advice I’ve Ever Received and How It Almost Broke Me

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You Abused Me. But I Would Still Save Your Life.

October 28, 2022

Trigger warning: Sexual assault, child abuse Gardening, for some people, is quite relaxing. Being in nature, hearing the birds chirping away, the sun shining. For me, it’s always been something more. Whenever I am watering my gardens or weeding, I remember a time when I felt incredibly conflicted. I was a teenager on the verge… Read More You Abused Me. But I Would Still Save Your Life.