Surrounding Yourself with Positive People

I often receive compliments about how positive a person I am and how I always see the silver lining to everything. A few years ago, this wasn’t the case at all.

Before I met my husband, I was in a really bad place. I was at the lowest point in my life and I found it difficult to see the ‘light at the end of the tunnel’. Wanting to distract myself and use my time more productively, I threw myself into my studies.

Focusing on my education DID work. At least, for a while. It increased my self-esteem; it made me feel better about myself. The more I achieved, the happier I felt.

But the negativity of my friends at the time, impacted me tremendously and caused my success to falter. They disagreed with my focus on education; they criticised me for “talking too much about school”. Considering the emotional situation I was in at the time, it was a good thing that I had something to distract myself at all.

I remember feeling trapped; I didn’t want to feel down because I wanted to move beyond the past, but I didn’t want to be happy because my friends made me feel like I couldn’t.

But I have since realised that in order to be successful in life, you must surround yourself with positive people. You should spend your precious time with people who encourage you, support you and motivate you to achieve your personal best.

"Don't expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people."

And it’s a funny thing, because when you become a parent, there is so much judgement involved. People are quick to talk about what you’re doing, comment on whether it’s right or wrong, and how you should be doing it instead. But you need to free yourself from that negativity and be around those who help you flourish as a parent.

Because, in spite of all my difficulties, I am now the epitome of positivity. I try not to dwell in the past, I see the silver lining in everything and I believe that everything happens for a reason.

I owe a lot of my recent success as a writer to my supportive family and friends. They HAVE encouraged me, supported me and motivated me. They are TRULY amazing.

Be the positive person that your family and friends deserve; you could end up making such a positive difference in their lives.

Thuy Le (formerly known as Thuy Yau) is a freelance writer and Youth Work graduate living in Perth, Australia. She loves to share her own personal experiences about overcoming adversity, as she believes that human beings are more capable than they realise. She writes to make a positive difference in the world and to inspire others to learn from themselves and their own experiences. Her writing has been discussed on radio, won writing contests, appeared on The Huffington Post UK and major Australian sites such as, SMH, Kidspot and Essential Kids. She has just completed her first book – a memoir - and is on the search for a publisher.

2 thoughts on “Surrounding Yourself with Positive People

  1. hi thuy this blog is very true having postive things and people around you is alot better since i have meet you i have looked at myself in different ways and that is iam more stronger and postived in what i do but i also still have some bad days too which i know i will always have them so thankyou for writing what you do i will follow yours blogs and surport you all the way thanks luv michelle xxx

    1. Hi Michelle 🙂

      I’m glad to have had such a positive influence on your life. You’ve been such a good friend to me & I really value our friendship.

      I do know what you mean about the bad days. It definitely sucks when that happens. Just remember that life is full of ups and downs; you will always have others around you to pick you back up. We are all living the same life and we will all get through it TOGETHER.

      Thank you so much for your support! 🙂

      Love Thuy xox

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