I’m Finally Crying Tears of Joy

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Three days ago, I made a very important decision. One that I'd been seriously contemplating for weeks now. I made the very significant decision to end my counselling. I no longer felt that I needed it. My counsellor agreed. We both knew that I was ready. The smile on my face right now reminds me … [Read more...]

Being Proud of Your Progress

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I promised I would be back to blogging regularly and here I am! :) It's been 20 days since my last blog post, though. It may not be the previous two posts per week, but I'm focusing on slowly getting back onto my feet :) To say that the past year has been a difficult year would be a massive … [Read more...]

A New Chapter Begins

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Once again, it's been another 4 months since my last blog. But this time, something in me has completely shifted. I know now that I am back to writing for good! When I wrote my last blog post, I'd only publicly disclosed my child abuse very recently. The memories, the trauma, the heartbreak, the … [Read more...]

There is Always Hope. Always.

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It's been an emotional 4 months since my last blog post. I have cried many tears. I have felt sad, angry, resentful, overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, fearful, a mixture of emotions. At times, when I was feeling at my absolute worst, I even struggled to see whether life was worth living any more. … [Read more...]

You are Stronger Than You Realise

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I've been having a really rough time lately. It's been such an emotionally challenging time for me. But this whole experience has opened my eyes to something incredibly significant: that I am so much stronger than I realised. Challenges build our resilience Have you ever been faced with anything … [Read more...]

Why the World Needs You

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I often like to think of our world as an 'ecosystem', but not in the way that the word is commonly used. I believe that in this world that we're living in, each of us plays a very important role. Through the use of our talents, our skills, our gifts we make the world a better place. Without the … [Read more...]

Having the Courage to Take Risks

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There's a person that I know. She's kind, caring and a wonderful mother to her kids. But our friendship had a bit of a slow start. I've had many recent experiences where I have been hurt and my friendship was taken advantage of. So when I met this lovely Mum, I was hesitant in getting too close. I … [Read more...]

Small Changes Can Make A Big Difference

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I've been feeling a little guilty lately. My youngest daughter just started Kindergarten last month and I haven't been able to enjoy this time as much as I've wanted to. When my first child started Kindy four years ago, I also had a 2 year old at home but my life wasn't as hectic. I now … [Read more...]

What I’ve Learnt about Love

I was 16 years old the first time I ever fell in love. Or at least, what I felt was love at the time. I was emotionally fragile, vulnerable and incredibly naive. I knew hardly anything about love, just that I wanted to feel loved and appreciated. This person made me feel special for the first time … [Read more...]

When You See Yourself Through Others’ Eyes

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About three weeks ago, I attended my husband's work Christmas party. As always, the venue they'd chosen was beautifully decorated, the food was delicious, and the company was very entertaining. However, what was most memorable had nothing to do with the elegant party itself. Instead, it was what … [Read more...]