A personal development blog by a mother, writer & entrepreneur
I've had some horrible things said to me during my life. When I had a nail biting habit, I was told that nobody would love me - that no-one would want to hold my filthy hand, let alone marry me. I've been repeatedly called stupid. I've been told to lose weight because nobody likes a fat girl. I've … [Read more...]
My six year old daughter once taught me a lesson in forgiveness. During a day at school, she'd made some lovely artwork. She'd proudly waved it in front of me, excited to show her father when he got home. But within seconds of showing me, her classmate randomly came along and defaced it. The boy did … [Read more...]
When Ben Affleck accepted his Oscar award for 'Argo' earlier this year, he likened marriage to 'work'. Standing on stage, he said to his wife who was in the audience: "I want to thank you for working on our marriage for 10 Christmases. It's good. It is work but the best kind of work and there's no … [Read more...]
There was a period in my life when I thought I was worthless, useless, a horrible waste of space. I thought that I was incapable of bringing any good to this world, that nobody would love me for who I am, that my opinion simply did not matter. But I managed to get myself out of the hole that I was … [Read more...]
I want to tell you about someone. Someone very special. She is one of the most beautiful people I have ever met - not just in terms of her physical appearance, but because of who she is on the inside. She is kind, caring, compassionate, and so very selfless. If I needed her, I know she'd come … [Read more...]
Have you ever heard of the term 'Shark music'? Last year, I attended a mother's group for my second daughter to help manage her anxiety issues, and I was introduced to this metaphor. In the famous 'Jaws' films, there's always that same eerie music that plays as the shark swims nearby. It basically … [Read more...]
When I was about 11 years old, I found out that my emotional intelligence quotient (EQ) was 156. I fell within the range of people with incredibly high emotional intelligence. Although I hadn't even hit my teenage years, I wasn't too shocked by the result. I'd always known that I had a strong … [Read more...]
Many years ago, I came across a news story that reminded me how short life really is. A 16 year old girl named Stacey Mitchell, was a fun-loving, friendly teenager who was well-liked by her peers. But she was tragically murdered right here in Perth, Australia, then her body was dumped in a rubbish … [Read more...]
In just three days, I'll be celebrating an important day - my 25th birthday. For me, birthdays have never been about presents. They've been about making our loved ones feel special, cared for and appreciated. In addition to this, I feel that birthdays are a good chance to reflect back on how far … [Read more...]
As some of you might know, I'm currently going through a bit of a rough time. A friend, who has meant a great deal to me, for many years, is no longer in my life. It's been a tumultuous fortnight, my emotions have been all over the place. But I'm getting there and I have a lot of hope that I'll be … [Read more...]
Hi there! My name is Thuy Yau and I'm a Freelance Writer. I am incredibly passionate about helping others. I am a columnist for Aussie Mum Network & Mums Lounge, and a contributor to NYC Talking. I have won contests run by an Oprah columnist, appeared on the front page of the Sydney Morning Herald site & interviewed on radio. I am 25 & married with 3 kids. I hope my writing inspires you to lead a better life. 
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