Life, Love and Laughter

Something pretty amazing happening today. Nothing particularly eventful but pretty amazing for me. Today, I laughed the hardest that I have laughed in the past few weeks. My facial cheeks hurt. My stomach felt pained. I was laughing uncontrollably. So why did my fits of laughter mean so much … [Read more...]

Can a Person Ever Really Change?

There's been a recurring theme in my life as of late. It's been the idea of change. Changing beliefs, attitudes, values, perspectives. In my own personal and professional life, circumstances have led to me to ask - is it worth being around people who are no longer conducive to your own happiness? … [Read more...]

I’m Finally Crying Tears of Joy

Three days ago, I made a very important decision. One that I'd been seriously contemplating for weeks now. I made the very significant decision to end my counselling. I no longer felt that I needed it. My counsellor agreed. We both knew that I was ready. The smile on my face right now reminds me … [Read more...]

Being Proud of Your Progress

I promised I would be back to blogging regularly and here I am! :) It's been 20 days since my last blog post, though. It may not be the previous two posts per week, but I'm focusing on slowly getting back onto my feet :) To say that the past year has been a difficult year would be a massive … [Read more...]

A New Chapter Begins

Once again, it's been another 4 months since my last blog. But this time, something in me has completely shifted. I know now that I am back to writing for good! When I wrote my last blog post, I'd only publicly disclosed my child abuse very recently. The memories, the trauma, the heartbreak, the … [Read more...]

There is Always Hope. Always.

It's been an emotional 4 months since my last blog post. I have cried many tears. I have felt sad, angry, resentful, overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, fearful, a mixture of emotions. At times, when I was feeling at my absolute worst, I even struggled to see whether life was worth living any more. … [Read more...]

You are Stronger Than You Realise

I've been having a really rough time lately. It's been such an emotionally challenging time for me. But this whole experience has opened my eyes to something incredibly significant: that I am so much stronger than I realised. Challenges build our resilience Have you ever been faced with anything … [Read more...]

Having the Courage to Take Risks

There's a person that I know. She's kind, caring and a wonderful mother to her kids. But our friendship had a bit of a slow start. I've had many recent experiences where I have been hurt and my friendship was taken advantage of. So when I met this lovely Mum, I was hesitant in getting too close. I … [Read more...]

What I’ve Learnt about Love

I was 16 years old the first time I ever fell in love. Or at least, what I felt was love at the time. I was emotionally fragile, vulnerable and incredibly naive. I knew hardly anything about love, just that I wanted to feel loved and appreciated. This person made me feel special for the first time … [Read more...]

When You See Yourself Through Others’ Eyes

About three weeks ago, I attended my husband's work Christmas party. As always, the venue they'd chosen was beautifully decorated, the food was delicious, and the company was very entertaining. However, what was most memorable had nothing to do with the elegant party itself. Instead, it was what … [Read more...]