Can a Person Ever Really Change?

There's been a recurring theme in my life as of late. It's been the idea of change. Changing beliefs, attitudes, values, perspectives. In my own personal and professional life, circumstances have led to me to ask - is it worth being around people who are no longer conducive to your own happiness? … [Read more...]

What I’ve Learnt about Love

I was 16 years old the first time I ever fell in love. Or at least, what I felt was love at the time. I was emotionally fragile, vulnerable and incredibly naive. I knew hardly anything about love, just that I wanted to feel loved and appreciated. This person made me feel special for the first time … [Read more...]

When First Impressions are Wrong

Whenever we meet someone for the first time, it's hard not to form some kind of 'first impression' of them. It might be the way a person looks or dresses. The way they walk. The topics they choose to talk about. As human beings, it's normal to form specific ideas about people before we truly get to … [Read more...]

Making Time for Loved Ones

I'm not someone who believes in having regrets. I believe that sometimes life could have turned out differently. I believe that sometimes we could have made better choices. But I don't believe in holding onto the past. No matter how much we wish things were different, the truth is - they can't … [Read more...]

Overcoming a Life Without Confidence

I've had some horrible things said to me during my life. When I had a nail biting habit, I was told that nobody would love me - that no-one would want to hold my filthy hand, let alone marry me. I've been repeatedly called stupid. I've been told to lose weight because nobody likes a fat girl. I've … [Read more...]

Everyone Loves Differently

I love going to visit my parents. Every time we go, the kids have a great day with their grandparents. They'll laugh, smile, run around; and I'm reminded of the life I had before I met my husband. But what I love most about visiting my parents is remembering how much my mother and father love me, … [Read more...]

Be Nice Because You Can Be

If someone were to ask me, "What makes you happy?", my answer would be pretty simple. I'm not a woman who cares about owning an expensive pair of shoes. I'm not a woman who cares which fashion trends are 'in'. I'm not a woman who needs a beautiful house, lots of money, or extravagant gifts to be … [Read more...]

This is Your Life

I'm not an angry person. Emotional, yes. Angry, no. If something upsets me; I might feel hurt, I might even cry if I feel that bad. But recently, something absolutely infuriated me. You probably know by now that I got married and had children quite young. I don't regret any of my decisions for a … [Read more...]

How to Truly Be There for Someone

My husband and I are like two peas in a pod. We're so incredibly similar. We love blogging. We're obsessed with cars. We love the same movies and songs. We laugh at the same jokes. We have the same values. Despite all those similarities, though, we are so incredibly different when it comes to our … [Read more...]

Being Considerate of Others

It's always been within my nature to care about other people. I can't help it, it's a definitive part of who I am. If my daughter spills her drink in the middle of the shops, I'll find anything to absorb up the water. I wouldn't want someone to slip over. If I'm driving along and someone's been … [Read more...]